Top 10 habits that will make your more beautiful and meaningful [Part-6]

 Hi my friends, welcome again

Since, I have already told that I am going to publish the next 5 parts of  [Top 10 habits that will make your life more beautiful and meaningful], that's why today I am here with this and the blog post is going to be the fifth part of it. If you haven't checked the previous four posts already, then you can have a look of them and the links will be given below. 

Also read: Top 10 habits that will make your life more beautiful and meaningful

Also read: Top 10 habits that will make your life more beautiful and meaningful [Part-2]

Also read: Top 10 habits that will make your life more beautiful and meaningful [Part-3]

Also read: Top 10 habits that will make your life more beautiful and meaningful [Part-4] 

Also read:  Top 10 habits that will make your life more beautiful and meaningful [Part-5]

Just like the previous blog posts, in today's blog post, I am going to be talking about another 10 useful habits that will make your life more beautiful and meaningful.

 So if you're being interested, then continue reading to the last.

Top 10 habits that will make your life more beautiful and meaningful [Part-5]

 1. Try to be solution focused:

Our life is a roller coaster. It's full of ups and downs. Even, if I will be having a word about my personal life, then you will be surprised to know that sometimes I feel so miffed of all those problems  I am having in my life that I tend to presume that maybe god is giving me curses. But, Only that moment, I understand that every human in the world is having some problems. Some people show it and some people do not . Most of the problems in our life are worthy of being solved. Now you might be wondering that if it's the case, then why a bunch of people keep saying that they're stuck in their life with their problems. Well, there is the case. Estimated 7 billions people are being in the world, and in this situation simply there used to be two kinds of people . One is solution focused and people of this category are such a cool minded people. They're not likely to run away after watching problems. Instead, even in a solemn problem, they try their level best to stay cool and patient and try to solve the problem. The another category of people are the entire opposite of it. They used to run away by witnessing problems. Sometimes even they might feel pressured by thinking about the problems more than solutions. If you're one of that category of people, then you should know that running away by watching problems will never let you to get rid of it. Instead you will have to have the courage of facing up problems. Because, always remember that you will have to have always influence on your problems. Otherwise it will influence you.

 

2.  Practice forgiveness:

Forgiveness is such a precious thing. Forgiveness can give you heavenly feeling but it's too demanding to have the skill😀. Specially, for some people who find their happiness while taking revenge😈. Taking revenge is so effortless to do but it can make your life more harsher than you think. I can say all these because I am also having a tones of experiences with it. I can still remember that, when I was a school student, then many of my classmates always used to grant on me. They used to bully me and sometimes they used to insult me in front of others. One day, I started feeling so drained of it and I started taking different powerful revenges. Sometimes I was scoffing them, teasing them and even tend to beat them. And guess what? as days started going, my life started being more unhappy than the before. Because, I was always being busy with taking revenge on others. Even, my teachers and classmates also hated me for that. I don't know why it was happening? Finally, after a lot of depression and fighting with myself, I decided to stay calm and not to take revenge anymore. And now again guess what? My life started altering entirely. People were loving me and the people who used to tease me started being suave with me and even my life started being more peaceful than ever before. That is called the power of forgiveness. Taking revenge will waste your time, will make you unhappy and will make you destructive and hated by everyone. But, with forgiveness your life can be modified entirely and even you can also win your enemy's heart sometimes with your wonderful forgiveness. Forgiveness can give you amazing mindfulness. In a word, forgiveness can be one of the biggest and most effective mindful self care tips that you can ever apply in your life. So, start practicing forgiveness in your life from today and make your life more amazing.

 

3. Don't share your secrets with everyone:

We all used to have several secrets in our life and these are not worthy of being known by everyone. There are some people are being in the world who used to be so secretive and there are also a masses of other people are being who used to be peace of mind by sharing their secrets with their trustworthy people. Moreover, there are also some other people are being who used to trust someone so effortlessly and starts sharing their every secrets with them. If you're one of those category, then you may start hating me for forbidding you from sharing your secrets. But, trust me, I was also a person of that category who used to reckon anyone so effortlessly and used to share their secrets with them. You know what? I regretted!!! even regretted badly. When you tend to share your secrets with others, you should always remember that, today the person you're having a good relationship with, tomorrow he can be your enemy. And then, there will be no friendship, no responsibility, no privacy. If he wish, then he will be able to share your secrets with anyone he wishes. Some of our secrets used to be so sensitive, that even it might destroy our life or a very important thing of our life. Even, sometimes there can be also some fake people around you with a mask of an innocent person. Now, what can you do, when you're being in a problem? Well, share it with your parents who can really help you with this. However, if you presume that it's too sensitive too handle, then my suggestion will be not to share it with anyone.  Now some people around you can try to make your mind by saying that you can trust them. But, you should know at that moment, that we are human and it's our common feature that we feel interested to listen about other's secret. Don't know why? But this is the fact😂

Also read: Top 10 things that you should always keep a secret from others

Also read: Top 10 things that you should always keep a secret from others [Part-2]

Also read: Top 7 signs that will say that someone is keeping a secret from you

 

4. Talk less and do more:

"Action speaks louder than words"- For how many times you have listened that in your life? At least for one time in your life I am sure. In my life till yet, I have listened this more than 200+ times and to tell the truth I personally believe in that a lot😇 But, I know, despite of listening to this for a masses of times in their life, there are also some other people are being in the world who even don't understand the real meaning and importance of it to the rest of their life. I am not saying that they don't understand the language of of it. I wanna say that, people actually don't apply that in their regular life. That's why many people struggle in their life at every step. The world can be changed by based on your actions not by based on your words. Even the fact is, when your words feel more heavier than your action, that is the moment when you're going to be considered as a silly person to the rest of the people you might know. Even, sometimes when you know a lot, then it's better to stay laconic even at that moment. One of the greatest poet of the English literature, William Shakespeare says, "Have more than you show, Speak less than you know." William Shakespeare also says, "Have more than thou showest, Speak less than thou knowest, Lend less than thou owest." An another greatest person in the history, Billy Grapham says, "If I had to do it all over again, I would speak less and study more." Not only them, there are also numerous great people are being in the history who have always suggested to talk less and work more. So start maintaining this in your life as a moral rule from today. 

 

5. Don't waste money, save it:

A masses of people are being out there who used to find their happiness while spending money. They used to spend their money in different unnecessary stuffs like, 5 star hotels, branded clothes, 10-12 cars and many more. Furthermore, there are also some other people are being who used to presume that spending money on all those branded stuffs is a sign of their richness. But, the fact is if you will head over in the history then, you will understand that the greatest people in the world who are great for both of their money, power, and heart are likely to choose a simple life. Even I kid you not, but the co-founder of the greatest social media platforms facebook, Mark Zuckerberg wonderingly also prefer to have a simple life despite of being a billionaire. I mean,  many news and medias have told that, Mark Zuckerberg is likely to do all of his shopping by himself like a simple person and even he also used to be seen wearing on simple clothes. One of the greatest American business magnate, Warren Buffet says, "Do not save what is left after spending. BUT SPEND WHAT IS LEFT AFTER SAVING." Johan Wolfgang Von Goethe says, " Many people take no care of their money till they're nearly to the end of it, and others do just the same with their time."

 

6. Don't try to please everyone:

A heaps of people are being out there who used to care a lot about social interactions and used to act like an over associative person. They're one kind of people who can never take any criticism and always tries be in the side of what other people think without considering if it's correct or wrong. One of the biggest example of it is woman discrimination. A masses of families are being out there who used to restrict their daughters to go out and do whatever they want, because still in our society a tones of people hate to see the women having freedom. This was only one example. But, cores and cores of examples are being there in the world. So. never be a people pleaser. If you want to make your life more meaningful then try to be a worshipper of the correct things.

7. Visit your neighbors:

Most miserably, we're living in a distructive generation where we are only learning to stay alone and we don't care about the things these are happening around us. We don't care about the emotions of people around us. We have forgotten to share our happiness, sadness and emotions with others. We only care about the stuffs that we see trending in our news feeds on facebook and YouTube. When the news used to be invisible from our news feed, we also start forgetting about that. I can still remember what my parents used to tell me. Their life were more happier and friendlier than today. Our neighbors, people who live around us are also a part of our life. Back in the time, people used to consider their neighbors as their closest friend and they used to make time to visit their neighbors and other friends. But, now what? It's being seen in a masses of places where people of one house are spending a spontaneous life, and at the same moment people of an another house beside their house are dying for hunger. Don't you think, it's not okay? Visiting your neighbors will make you more rejuvenated. It will give you more happiness than chatting with friends on massengar and whatsapp. Even, sometimes you can get your neighbors as your closest supporter on your danger. So, start breaking the distraction and having a friendly relationships with your neighbors from today.

8. Help your depressed friend:

Depression has become such a greater part of our life. Almost every person in the world nowadays is having something to feel depressed. But, the saddest truth is, in this generation people are not likely to have someone who evidently care about their emotions. That's why, younger to old, every of them has learnt very goodly that how to have a fake smile. Even, chances are that in your friend zone your happiest and most smiling friend  is also suffering from depression in his life. Maybe, he is also having several fears that is not letting him to share his problems with everyone. But, as a friend it's your responsibility to ask him about his problems and help him at that moment. Being a friend doesn't mean only having a conversation for sometimes between each other. Being a friend means compromising, understanding and helping the other friend and being with him and even in his deadliest danger.  

Also read: Top 7 things you can say to boost your depressed friend.

Also read: Top 10 things not to say to a depressed friend.

 

9. Ask for help:  

This point is specially for you if you're one of those people who despise sharing their problems with others and tend to consider it as a meanest work. Well, I must confess that, sharing your problems and weaknesses with everyone sometimes may create some critical circumstances. Because, not all people are likely to be emphasizing and good of heart. Some evil people can be also out there who can make fun of your problems and can use your weaknesses in future to hurt you. But, if you desire to not to share your problems with anyone, then don't get me wrong but you're doing the wrong work. Hiding your problems from everyone will never serve you to lessen your problems. If you think, that you're having someone around you who can help you with your problems, then obviously you should ask for help. Some people might be a little egoistic and they can assume that maybe people will consider you a feeble person if you will ask for help. But, trust me it's never the case. Even, if you will refuge to ask for help despite of knowing that people might help you, then reckon me there can be no idiotic work like this that you can ever do.

10. Give away free things: 

This point is specially for you if you're a miser type person. I have seen a bunch of people out there who used to be so obsessive about their money and as a result, they hate to give away free things and hate to help anyone in free. But, have faith in me, giving away free thing can apparently help you in various prospects. Firstly, helping any beggars or helping any destitute people with money and free foods, homes and others can make your inner soul more peaceful. On the top of that, if you're a shopkeeper, business person or a blogger like me, than giving away free things will help you a lot for improving the relationships with your customers and readers.

Overview of all the points in short:

1. Try to be solution focused.

2. Practice forgiveness.

3. Don't share your secrets with everyone.

4. Talk less and do more.

5. Don't waste money, save it.

6. Don't try to please everyone.

7. Visit your neighbors.

8. Help your depressed friend.

9. Ask for help.

10. Give away free things.

********************************************************

 THAT'S ALL FOR TODAY. ☺☺☺

DON'T GO AWAY WITHOUT LEAVING A COMMENT. 👇👇👇

FINALLY, IF YOU LIKED IT, THEN SHARE IT WITH OTHERS WHO CAN FIND IT HELPFUL🙏🙏🙏  KEEP IT IN MIND,"SHARING IS CARING"😘😘😘 

 If you liked my post totally and want to be connected with me more, then I will recommend you to join my free weekly newsletter where every Friday I will share some interesting things with you. 💚💙💜

Just enter your email address there and only after clicking on subscribe, go to your inbox and click on the confirmation link and then you're done😃😃😃

 

Join the Free Weekly Newsletter

Subscribe for Friday Snippets - my weekly newsletter where I share different interesting things and deliver them directly to your inbox.

​

Interesting things you will get in the weekly newsletter:

​

1. 3 of my favorite blog posts from my website that you will obviously enjoy.
2. My new YouTube videos of the week.
3. An amazing quiz that will blow your mind and will help you to test your knowledge.
4. 5 mind blowing and life changing motivational quotes that will make your day.
5. 10 amazing unknown facts that you haven't probably known before.

​

Join the free weekly newsletter with other 100+ friendly readers

We won't send you spam. Unsubscribe at any time.

Built with ConvertKit