Top 10 Highly Effective Tips To Gain Respect From Others [Part-6]

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Since, I have already told that I am going to publish the another 5 parts of  [Top 10 highly effective tips to gain respect from others], that's why today I am here with this and the blog post is going to be the another 5th part of it and also the last part. If you haven't checked the previous five posts already, then you can have a look of them and the links will be given below. 

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         Top 10 highly effective tips to gain respect from others [Part-4]

         Top 10 highly effective tips to gain respect from others [Part-5]

Just like the previous blog posts, in today's blog post, I am going to be talking about another 10 highly effective tips that will definitely help you to gain respect from others.

 

So, if you're being interested, then continue reading to the last.  

 

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Top 10 habits that will make your life more beautiful and meaningful [Part-6]

 

Top 10 strategies to gain respect from others

 

1. Become a good friend:

 At the first place, the suggestion can be looking like as a very simple suggestion to you. However, being a good friend isn't as simple as we used to consider it. Being a good companion means bolstering the other friend at every danger, understanding them, compromising for them and overall maintaining a good bonding. Have you ever noticed that, whenever we used to have a little quarrel with one of our friends, most frequently we start having a bad idea about them. Moreover, sometimes we start ignoring them and start talking in their back. Having these characteristics, you can never claim yourself as a good friend. Moreover, most of the people nowadays used  to focus on increasing the number of  new friends instead of increasing the bonding among the friends.Consequently, they also start forgetting their old friends or start losing touch with their old friends while focusing on their new friends. If you're one of those people, then you should know that you're not increasing friends, but you're just gaining some sort of disrespect from other people. Since, no one will ever admire someone who forget them for someone. Instead, everyone adores and remembers a good friend sometimes to the rest of their life.

2. Learn to find your feet at any situation:

 Life is not a bed of roses. It's a rollar-coster that is full of ups and downs. Life will put you on different situations and will test you as well. And, this is the deep down truth for everyone in the world. For living a sustainable life, you must accept the bitter truth. Now, instead of accepting this, if you will start reacting a lot against it, then simply it will be looking like a ridiculous situation and nothing else and people around you may start making fun of you since this is actually a weird habit of not accepting the situation. On the other hand, a person who can find her feet at any situation is likely to lead everywhere. Since, nothing doesn't bother them that much and they know that how to manage everything. Eventually, they can also gain respect form other people.

3. Respect other's privacy:

 For the most part, we feel too interested to know about the secret and private things and information of other people. Even, I can bet that you're also having the same habit too. Asking others politely to know about their secret isn't a wrong thing. However, it goes terribly bad when you start asking others about their secrets and also start tormenting them to know about their secrets. You may not understand now but this is actually a terrible habit that may make people disliking you. Because, everyone used to have some sensitive secrets that they never desire to share with everyone. Moreover, how will you feel if someone will try to trigger your privacy? Obviously, you will start ignoring them and will obviously disrespect them. Eventually, when you will be granting on others, then they will hate you too. So start abandoning the terrible habit from today.

 

4. Say what you mean:

 Various people used have various types of opinions and it's normal if you can't agree with any of them. There is no wrong with saying 'no'. However, showing disagreement might feel rude already. Well, the most effective way to demonstrate your disagreement politely it to portray the reason behind it. Since, when you start leaving them by showing your disagreement without elucidating the reason behind it, then they might think that you're doing this because any of personal reason. As a result, they will start disrespecting you and hating you.

5. Be willing to change your mind:

 This point is quite connected with the previous one. You can be disagree with anyone as per your choice. But, what if someone else is being disagree with you? Well, for some people it can be entirely intolerable. They may take it as an insult and also may go cross with the person. Do you know what is one of the biggest reason behind it? Well, they always keep presuming that they can never be wrong or they know the most about something. As a result, when someone becomes disagree with them, then they can't brook this anyway. Trust or not, people just hate this category of people. On the other hand, listening to other people and accepting that they can also become wrong is actually the characteristic of wise people. So, be willing to change your mind always if you face any circumstance like this ever.

6. See the good in everything, at every situation:

Picture this, you know someone who has failed in something recently but still you're watching them smiling. How will you feel? Well, I am sure that you will assume that he has mental or maybe he has gotten any good news that is making him smile. Well, what do you think, is it possible to smile at a dangerous situation even without not getting any good news? It might wonder you that the answer is, 'yes'. Only some few people can do this who have a super power. And, the super power is nothing but finding good in every situation. Yes, it's a superpower that not everyone can handle. For them, 'No' means 'Next opportunity' and 'failure' is actually a symbol that they're going to be succeed. For the most part, people find these people apparently interesting and positive and admire them as well.

 

7. Give credit to the right person:

 Getting the credit of something that has been done good is actually a great pleasure. However, you should always give credit to someone who owes it and where it's due. For instance, maybe you're writing a book and your friend is helping you with it. Now, when the book hits the spot, then never forget to point out your friend's name there. Or, maybe you along with your team has accomplished something really good. Now, don't say that, 'I have accomplished this.' Turn the 'I' into 'we' and say, 'We have accomplished this'. You should always point out the contribution of someone and even if it was too small. One of the biggest reason for that you should always give credit to the write person is, when you give the right credit to someone then you appear as a trustworthy, exceptional and an admiring person to them. And the special habit also helps you a lot to be a good leader and also help you a lot to bring prosperity in your life.

 

8. Don't hesitate to ask questions:

 Masses of people are being out there in the world who hesitate a lot to ask questions and even though they used to have some problems with something. They try their level best to solve it by themselves and there isn't actually anything wrong with it. But, it starts going wrong when they try to hide their problems and try to fake perfectionism. If you're one of those people, then you should know that asking questions is better than faking perfectionism and getting mocked by someone at a later time. Moreover, I also presume that asking questions is also a lot easier than bearing the disrespect that you might get from someone. So, never hesitate to ask questions.

9. Don't be too available:

 Being too available to someone means being over tolerant and kind to someone. It's true that there always used to be some people in our life that we can never shout at or ignore and even if we wish to do so. They can be our family members or our friends or loved one. We can never say 'no' to those people and we always keep compromising for them and even though sometimes some of them don't actually value it. If you're also having some people in your life currently who underestimate your worth, then I will suggest you to leave them for sometimes and let it make sense to them that how invaluable you are! The method can be painful to do. However, it's much more better than being underestimated  and disrespected by someone continually.

10. Understand other's situation:

Firstly I want to ask you some question. What used to be your situation when you fall in a trouble and you seek help from someone and you don't get them beside you? Or, what used to be your  feeling when you call someone or try to contact someone for numerous times but they don't used to be able to contact you? Well, I am sure that for the most part you used to be outraged in these situations and consider that they're just ignoring you. But, do they always ignore you? All the people in the world are having their own problems. And you need to understand that. It's not possible for one person to help everyone. Moreover, people always admire a person who understands them. So, whenever something like this happening with you, don't react immediately and understand the situation firstly.

 

Overview of all the points in short:

1. Be a good friend.

2. Learn to find your feet at any situation.

3. Respect other's privacy.

4. Say what you mean.

5. Be willing to change your mind.

6. See the good in everything, everyone, at every situation.

7. Give credit to the right person.

8. Don't hesitate to ask questions.

9. Don't be too available.

10. Understand other's situation.

 

No more today. Don't forget to leave a comment about what you think about the post. If you know about any strategy that hasn't been listed her, but people can follow it to gain respect, then let me know about it on the comment section

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