Top 10 highly effective tips to gain respect from others
Respect is such a greater part of our life. Every of us wants to gain respect from others and from almost everyone. But the harsh truth is, respect is such a tough thing to get. People won't respect you casually if you won't give a reason to do that. Moreover, sometimes you will have to do some specific things to gain admiration from others by yourself. Sometimes even you can ruin your own personality to others unwillingly. It's something that can also play a great role for lessening your respect.
A masses of people are being out there in the world, who are even not having any idea about all of the things that they must do for getting respect. As a result, for the most part, they used to spend their time by seeking respects from others but don't get it anyway.
Making effective boundaries is also a great part of gaining respect. If you don't know that how to build effective boundaries, then I will recommend you to check out the awesome article "How to manage boundaries while respecting others"
If you're one of them, who is seeking respects from other people or simply if you desire to get more admiration from people than the usual then the article is for you. Because in today's post, I am going to be talking about Top 10 highly effective tips to gain more respects from others that people won't literally tell you.
So if you're being interested, then continue reading to the last.
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Top 10 highly effective tips to gain respect from others
1. Be an expert at the things you do:
Being an expert at what you do is so pivotal for gaining respect. If you're doing something where you're literally not good at or simply if you're having a mediocre performance in it, then chances are that people are not going to respect you for it. For instance, maybe you're doing a job or maybe you're simply writing a book for your readers, now if you won't have a good idea about what you're writing out, then you will have a poor writing quality and your readers will start hating you eventually.
Now, some people might claim that what if you're not an entire expert of something or what if you're not having a good experience in it yet. Well, I am not saying you that you will have to be always a heavy hitter. Just make sure that you're having a good knowledge in it. Finally, if you're thinking that you're still being a beginner in something, then no worries! Since you're always having the opportunity to improve yourself if you wish.
2. Control your emotions:
Emotions are such a greater part of the human being. We all are having different emotions in us.Our happiness, sadness, anger - all these are a part of our emotions. A tones of people are being out there who used to find it really demanding to control their emotions. However, the most harsh truth is that, you will never be able to gain respect unless you learn that how to control your emotions. Even, sometimes your emotions can gain you disrespect and dislikes from other people. Because, the fact is most of the people in the world nowadays don't care about other's emotions. As proof, maybe you have gotten a bad news of something and for feeling too pensive you're tending to cry.
But stop! Don't cry and even how much does it hurt. Because, maybe you don't know but some people around you are never going to understand you and even going to consider you a feeble person and even can tease you with this in future. Feeling so uptight with something? Stop at that moment and cool down! Because the actions you're going to take only for being offended can bring disrespect for you from the people around you. I feel you've already understood that how important it is to control your emotions! So start controlling your emotions from today if you're not habit the habit of doing this yet. Because, controlling emotions is a tough skill to master and it takes a lot of times!!!!
3. Don't say sorry every time:
A bunch of people are being out there who used to say sorry for almost everything and even if they don't have done any mistake at all and the bad thing is that they do it in a regular basis every time. If you're one of them, then I will suggest you to start working for getting rid of this abominable habit.
Sometimes, when you're having a situation where you must say sorry only for saving a relationship or for making the situation good, then obviously there is no wrong with it. But, when saying sorry becomes a part of your habit, then it can make you apparently miserable. Because, when you say sorry every time despite of not doing any mistake, then chances are that people are going to take the right chance of it since they know that how easy it is to make you saying sorry! They will never apologize and will make you compelled to say sorry and will take the advantage of your innocence if you will say sorry every time. So always be aware of it.
4. Don't ask for help every time:
There is obviously no problem with asking for help if you're being in a serious problem and if you really need other's help. At this point, people are likely to help you with a free mind. But when you ask for help every time then it can make them literally disrespectful towards you. Let me tell you how?
I know a bunch of people are being out there who keep seeking for help for their every single problem and even sometimes they do it without even trying to solve it by themselves. Never be like them. When you're being in a prob and even when you think that this is one of the most solemn one, but after all , don't be afraid and try to solve it by yourself first. When you keep seeking for help to a person or to some people in a regular basis, then it grants on them, as well as it also drives them nutty sometimes and makes them disrespectful towards you.
5. Extend your helping hand and love for others without any expectation:
People always love a generous person. As a part of it, eventually they hate the people who are so miser and always desires to have something in exchange. If you're one kind of person like this, then I can give you 100% guarantee that you're never going to gain respect in that way.
Now it can hurt some people and they might claim that what is the usefulness of helping others when you know that you're not going to get anything out of it. Well, as I have told at the very beginning of the post, getting respect is such a challenging thing, and it's also an example of it. Even to tell the truth, from my perspective I also presume that one can be an ideal human being only when he has done something for others without thinking about their self interest.
6. Live a clean, suave and productive life:
A reams of people are being out there in the world who used to live a messy, unclean and sluggish life. If you're one of those people, then you should know that a messy life will literally bring you much disrespect than you can ever think and just like that living a productive and clean life will make people more respectful toward you. To illustrate, suppose a situation that you're living in your own home where it's being a messy environment around. Now maybe suddenly some of your friends, cousins or any guest came. What's going to be happened? Oh no!!! I can't think of this.
They are obviously going to get an extremely worse idea about you. On the other hand, picture an another circumstance where some guests came to your home and witnessed a dapper atmosphere, what will happen just imagine.... Although, they won't say anything at that moment but at least they will understand that you're such a suave person and some sort of respects will be obviously produced in their mind that you can found through their attitude. So, start living a clean life from today if you've already understood the great importance of it. Sometimes your modesty can be also demonstrated through your dressing sense. Everyone is having their own impressive dressing sense. Personally, I love the dressing sense of the british people a lot. Because, their dressing makes them looking royally modest . I love their dressing sense and follow it also!!!
7. Don't be an extravagant person:
A tones of people are being out there who used to be too extravagant and as a result they used to spend a lot of money before the usual things that they can ever buy in a medium price. One of the biggest example of it is branding. Heaps of people are being out there who thinks that branding is the main thing and people will recognize their quality and will admire them more if they will notice them buying the branded thing. If you're one of those people, who are highly trusting on this for a long time, then I am sorry to say that you are being under the impression.
Even though, some people may show up their respects while watching others caring about branding. But, the fact is that still most of the people admire the person most who can save money properly and can have a good use of it.
8. Make time for people who support you:
A tones of people are being out there who used to have such an occupied schedule and consequently they never get some sort of spare times to spend it with the people who really want them. I know for some people it can be listening entirely fair to consider their work as their first priority. But, from my perspective it's not. Because, in your entire life, you can have only some fewer people who will boost you and will be always with you both in your good and bad time. For the most part, the biggest thing that they ever desire is just spending some times with you. Even, they never feel good when they notice someone choosing their work as their first priority by ignoring them.
Now, some people might claim that they used to work too hard only for making those people happy. Well, it doesn't matter that how much you're working , it matters how much you're being able to give them the real happiness. Even for the most part, most of the good families, friendships and relationships are being broken for showing the extreme busyness. Since, the fact is when you show extreme busyness to the people who want to spend a quality time with you instead, then naturally you start loosing their respect and love by time. So, if you want to gain respect or simply if you don't desire to loose respect or love, then you will have to make sure that you're never showing your busyness and making time for them.
9. Don't let people to know much about you:
Tones of people are being out there who let people to know almost everything about them. I mean some people are being out there who expose every little secrets, facts and specialities about them to others.
If you're one of them then you should know that letting people to know everything about you will decrease their respect towards you. Because, when they will understand that they have known everything about you, at that moment casually they will never feel interested to know about you anymore and even for the most part, they will start judging you with the information that you have given to them about you. Moreover, when they get some idea about your weaknesses while knowing everything about you, at that moment, they can also use it in a bad way to hurt you sometimes whenever they feel like doing this. So, you should be always aware of that you're not letting people to know much about you.
10. Never lie to anyone:
This suggestion that I am going to be taking about can be looking literally so common and cheap. Since, I presume that almost every person in the world have been taught that from the early commencement of their childhood life by their parents, family members and teachers as a moral rule that we should never lie to anyone. This is a fact. Even nor you and me is anomaly of that. But, after all have you ever thought that despite of knowing about this why many people are speaking a tones of lies everyday????
You will be wondered to know that a study has showed that Average person lies 200 times per day. Furthermore, The average person hears between 10 and 200 lies per day.According to a recent study funded by British Vodka maker WKD, the average man tells over 109,000 lies in a lifetime while the average woman fibs over 65,000 times. Teenagers are the most likely to lie successfully, according to new research. Scientists at the University of Amsterdam tested more than 1,000 people, aged 6 to 77, as they visited the city's Science Centre NEMO. Now you can be thinking that how a person can speak such a numerous amount of lies!!! Well, not all lies are as large as you think. Some people used to speak some small lies in several situations and they never take it solemnly. If you're one of them, then I will suggest you not to speak a little lie. Because, speaking lie is nothing but like a literal addiction. Maybe today you're speaking little lies as fun. If it will be continued, then chances are that in future you can also speak big lies by considering it a joke and it might hurt anyone and even can break anyone's trust and can bring a tones of disrespects for you. So, stop speaking lies from today.
Overview of all the points in short:
1.Be an expert at the things you do.
2. Control your emotions.
3. Don't say sorry every time.
4. Don't ask for help every time.
5. Extend your helping hand and love for others without any expectation.
6. Live a clean, save and productive life.
7. Don't be an extravagant person.
8. Make time for people who support you.
9. Don't let people to know much about you.
10. Never lie to anyone.
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There are a masses of useful habits are being out there that can utterly change your life. And I don't want you to be miser here and I don't want you being ignorant about them. But, in case today's post will be looking over lengthy, that's why, I don't want to post anything in the post anymore. Instead, I am having the plan of creating another 5 parts of this blog post. I mean, my next 5 blog posts will be :
Top 10 highly effective tips to gain respect from others [Part -2]Top 10 highly effective tips to gain respect from others [Part-3]
Top 10 highly effective tips to gain respect from others [Part-4]
Top 10 highly effective tips to gain respect from others [Part-5]
Top 10 highly effective tips to gain respect from others [Part-6]
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LOVE!!! My favorite is to extend a hand to others without any expectations. There is so much power in kindness. Another fantastic post.
ReplyDeleteGreat advice. I agree controlling your emotions and not apologising all the time for everything are important ways to command respect.
ReplyDeleteI so agree especially about the saying sorry all the time. We as people learn to try and appease others and apologize, but overly saying sorry can be detrimental even undermining. - Sienna
ReplyDeleteI agree with all these. Being an expert in your fields would definitely bring you respect from others
ReplyDeleteLosing control over your emotions is a sure fire 🔥 way to lose the respect of others and your own respect too.
ReplyDeleteLoved all the tips, such a good read. Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteI agree with all of these. I never lie to people because I don't like them to lie at me.
ReplyDeleteThank you for these insights.
Great tips. Getting respected from others is always key. It's important to stand your ground in doing this.
ReplyDeleteThese are great insights. I agree with you that the word sorry shouldn't be overused as it shows your lack of sincerity or confidence. Thank you for these tips and for reminder us to never lie to anyone.
ReplyDeleteRespect is such an important virtue that is often overlooked nowadays. Thanks for sharing these awesome tips!
ReplyDeleteTheres so much great advice in this pose. Thanks so much for sharing.
ReplyDeleteAll amazing tips and can't agree more!!!! Especially the one about controlling the emotions, that is very very important.
ReplyDeleteHi Abida,
ReplyDeleteReally fascinating post here wit some really great points.
My pick of the bunch is #5, “ Extend your helping hand and love for others without any expectation”. When you offer help with an expectations you essentially set yourself up for heartache. Best to be altruistic and not to expect anything in return. Really great advice.
Thanks for sharing :)
Best,
Pedro
Great advice. If someone has helped me in someway, I'll always try to return the favour whether they expect it or not.
ReplyDeleteOh my, 200 on average a day is so much. I wasn't suspecting that
ReplyDeleteI will take these advices with me to 2022.
ReplyDeleteGreat post! I agree, when people ask for help all the time it definitely makes them less in other people's eye. also there is nothing better than being a person who is knowledgeable about something and who people tend to listen in when it comes to this
ReplyDeleteVery helpful, I definitely think I need to follow a few of these tips.
ReplyDeleteGreat tips. I love emotional control because controlling yourself is the very important things in life.
ReplyDeleteVery detailed blog. well done.
ReplyDeleteWonder tips that I didn't know before. I am going to remember this when I need to gain trust. Very informative.
ReplyDeleteSo true about the controlling emotions point. The most unprofessional people I've met let themselves get very emotional in a professional space, and this caused me to lose respect for them. Cooling down and removing yourself from the situation is best.
ReplyDeleteAmazing tips, I feel getting respect is so important. Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteThese are excellent tips. There are so many things you can do to earn respect, but there are also so many things you can do that will lose it for you, too.
ReplyDeleteControlling emotions I feel must be the hardest to live by in these incredible tips. Yet it’s the best. It can save one a lot of trouble if they master not letting their emotions run them.
ReplyDeleteI prefer saving money to spending. But it needs great discipline from self. Especially if you are in a situation where you receive money in small bits as you work.
I think time is everything. if we constantly blow people off who have been good to us, they see we don't value them because we won't give them our time.
ReplyDeleteWhat a great post! This is an important thing we should know more. Glad to see this post.
ReplyDeleteI love tip number 6. Living a humble but healthy life is a very good one! Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteGreat tips! Respect is such a great thing to give and to earn.
ReplyDeleteRespect is a 2 way stream. Unfortunately some people, like some Managers, think that it's a one way stream. I aslo think that we shouldn't ask for favors all the time. Constantly asking for help can make one become a slave to the helper. Great tips Abida!
ReplyDeleteShocked by the statistics on the amount of lies per day. Let's all just be truthful!
ReplyDeleteAlthough I think these are all great, I think agree people need to stop lying, even the small lies. Some do not realize they can be harmful to themselves and others. I also think controlling your emotions is so important.
ReplyDeleteExcellent post regarding gaining respect. There are many moments we may do things and would love appreciation for it. But the point you made is important because it is a true healing hand when we do anything without any expectation of the same in return. Thank you for this great post.
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