Top 10 highly effective tips to gain respect from others [Part-3]
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Hi my friends, welcome again
Since, I have already told that I am going to publish the another 5 parts of [Top 10 highly effective tips to gain respect from others], that's why today I am here with this and the blog post is going to be the another 2nd of it.
Also read: Top 10 highly effective tips to gain respect from others
Top 10 highly effective tips to gain respect from others [Part-2]
Top 10 highly effective tips to gain respect from others [Part-4]
But before dig into the article, I want to say that today I am not alone. Just like the previous part, today we're again having the amazing writer about self improvement, Soo Takiguchi. Check out her wonderful website for finding more amazing personal development tips simply by clicking here . I can give you guarantee that you will love her writings!!
Now let's come to the point!!! I presume you're already ready to explore some amazing strategy to gain respect from others. So, if you're being interested, then continue reading to the last!!
Top 10 strategies to gain respect from others
1. Being able to Handle Criticism:
Being able to handle
criticism is a very respectable trait. It means being open to feedback
and listening to others' points of view. It requires confidence in
yourself so that you do not take the criticism too personally. Remind
yourself that everyone has flaws and that criticism is an opportunity to
learn how to improve. Being open to criticism shows you're willing to
accept responsibility for your actions and that you can admit you're not
perfect. It also communicates that you appreciate and acknowledge
others' opinions and ideas.
2. Be Vulnerable:
We're
all scared to be vulnerable. But being vulnerable allows others to see
our most authentic selves. This is the only way we create true
connections with others. Being vulnerable means being okay with not
being perfect all the time. It's choosing to have a difficult, but
honest conversation rather than remaining silent. It requires letting go
of fearing how others may judge you. When you're vulnerable, you
communicate that it's okay for others to be vulnerable too. This makes
other people feel at ease around you - that it's okay for them to be
their real selves too.
3. Admit to your Mistakes:
Most
people do not like to admit to their mistakes. It's tough to feel wrong
or imperfect. However, everybody makes mistakes. The quicker we admit
to our mistakes, the faster we can find solutions and make necessary
corrections. The longer we wait, the more problems will emerge.
Admitting to your mistakes requires courage, honesty, and humbleness.
These are all admirable traits that will lead others to respect you.
4. Be respectful to others feeling:
We all are having our own feelings and unique emotions. We all want our feelings to be understood. But, have you ever asked yourself that "Do I understand others feeling?" In this busy generation, most of us used to be busy with ourselves. Consequently, now we get time to care about the people around us. And guess what? this is how you start losing the valuable relationships in your life. Sometimes we even get irritated when anyone wants to share their feelings with us. If someone used to be crying for any reason that we actually don't know, then we tend to call it her weakness and sometimes when we find someone being afraid of something, most of us tend to tease the person for it. And when a person finds her feelings to be disrespected, then simply they start loosing respect on you. So, learn to respect others feeling. Care about it and you will gain respect from anyone eventually.
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5. Keep your promises:
It's always a piece of cake to make a promise. Even, nowadays most of us used to make a promise without thinking twice that if they can actually fulfill it. Most of them even make a promise only by being in the heat of the moment and without thinking about the future consequences. Never do the mistake anyway!! Because, when you make a promise without being that serious, chances are that the other person is being greatly serious about it and even is depending on you for it a lot. To illustrate, suppose a situation that one of your close friend is demanding some money to you due to financial crisis. Now, maybe you're not sure that if you can give the money or not, but you made a promise immediately and didn't fulfill it in future. Now just guess what is going to be occurred next? Maybe the person trusted you a lot and now he is being in a miserable situation. Or, simply he will be super disrespectful towards you and will never reckon you again. This is a big example of how you loose respect by not fulfilling your promises. On the other hand, if you will grow the positive habit of keeping your promises, then you will be able to gain respect from anyone so effortlessly. Moreover, it will also bring you success in your career and will make the relationships in your life more healthy.
6. Think before you speak:
Tons of people are being out there who never feel the need of thinking before speaking. If you're one of those people, then you should know that how much devastating the habit can be for your life!! Firstly, when you're being outraged with something, then by following this habit, you can hurt anyone too effortlessly. Even sometimes your words may hurt someone so badly that a knife can't. And in that way, sometimes you can break the person mentally and even if you are not having the intention of doing this and chances are, that for the most part you're likely to be regretting for what you have told in future. Making unrealistic promises can be also a consequence of not not thinking before speaking. You can also use some bad words accidentally while quarreling with someone and eventually they might be disrespectful towards you. On top of that, sometimes you may also reveal some of your sensitive secrets to anyone unintentionally only for not thinking before speaking and it might bring you down in the long run. In contrast, when you think before speaking, then you're likely to be saying the most clever words most frequently that actually gives you an attractive personality.
7. Express appreciation:
I know that at the first sight, it can be considered as a very common and unpragmatic tip to you since who doesn't appreciate others when it's necessary? If you're thinking like this, then ask yourself again that, "Do really everyone knows how to appreciate others?" Well, now you can feel quite triggered, since for the most part, the answer is, "no". Not everyone knows how to appreciate others and even some people don't do it willingly. One of the biggest reason behind it is, most of the people used to be too judgmental about others and always tries to figure out a mistake and flaw everywhere. Never be a person like this. If you think, that someone's work or talent is apparently praiseworthy, then appreciate them obviously. Because, when one person feels that they are worthy of being applauded, but despite of expecting appreciation from you when they don't get it, then simply they start losing respect towards you. Moreover, sometimes if you see one person whom you dislike a lot is doing a good work, then appreciate them as well. In that ways, you will be able to gain extra respect from other people.
8. Don't be a fake praiser:
What is meant by a fake praiser? Well, if you're having the question being posed in your mind then let me tell you the answer. A fake praiser is someone who praises others unnecessarily and sometimes appreciate someone too excessively and they do all these for their self interest.
As an illustration, maybe you know someone who is an employee of an
office and used to appreciate his boss excessively and used to give him
too many gifts and prizes most frequently for only getting promotions or
better position in the office, then no doubt that the person is a fake
praiser and an opportunist also. Sometimes they also do it for giving someone the fake happiness. To illustrate, maybe you're having a painting and you know that it's not looking that great good. But you are watching that your friend is pretending to be overwhelming about this only for making you happy. Then, no doubt that he is a fake praiser. Never be a person of any of these categories. Otherwise, you will start losing your respect too fast that you even can't be thinking of. Since, the fact is, when you give someone fake appreciation, then ridiculously for the most part, the person can feel that and starts hating you and disrespecting you as well
9. Say "Thank you" :
This
point is quite connected with the previous one. Even though saying
'thank you' can be feeling like a very common task but it isn't
in reality. In this occupied generation, most people forget to say
'thank you' when it's necessary and that is not a good habit at all.
Because, 'thank you' isn't actually a little sentence, it's a little but
great way to show gratitude. So, from today, whenever you get any help
from someone, just say thank you with a perfect smile and slowly but
surely, people will start gaining more positive ideas about you and about your
personality and will start respecting you as well.
10. Don't be overconfident:
We all know that how much bad overconfidence is! But, after all, most of use used to be overconfident about various things in our life. One of the biggest example of overconfidence is, most of us are likely to be thinking that we are the best in something and we are already having a plenty of knowledge with it. As a result, most of the people used to forsworn to learn from other people. If you're one of those people, then always know that overconfidence will literally make everyone hating you. Because, people love a confident person but they never can tolerate an overconfident person since overconfidence creates egos and arrogance within a person. So, stop being over confident from today if you don't desire to be disrespected and hated by anyone.
Overview of all the points in short:
1. Being able to Handle Criticism
2. Be Vulnerable
3. Admit to your Mistakes
4. Be respectful to others feeling
5. Keep your promises
6. Think before you speak
7. Express appreciation
8. Don't be a fake praiser
9. Say "Thank you"
10. Don't be overconfident
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Great tips! I'm so big on owning my mistakes. I've been around various people who don't / can't and it's so frustrating. Things can take so much longer to get resolved. Also please and thank you is a must!
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Great advice. People should also know how to give constructive criticism or advice. Being vunerable and admiting mistakes also helps others be vunerable is so true. Who wants to be around someone who thinks they are perfect.
ReplyDeletewell, if i had only 5 of listed traits i'd be a saint already��
ReplyDeletebut i'm trying to work on it☺
this strategy shurely works if you manage to possess all this personal achievements.
thanks for sharing your wisdom tips for life��
Love this! Respecting others feelings is so important and I wish everyone would think more about how their actions make others feel. Great post.
ReplyDeleteBeing vulnerable is a hard one, but important. Sometimes you have to open up honestly so that the person next to you feels safe to open up as well. Im working on being more honest and showing vulnerability at this time and it's strengthened my relationships greatly.
ReplyDeleteI think for me, not saying thank you is a crime! I see so many people missing opportunities by skipping these two words. It counts, and people remember.
ReplyDeleteThese are all super important things! I always try to show everyone respect in order to get it in return.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for sharing your post at B&I I am intrigued and love this series you have here and look forward to the rest. Yes we need to be open to criticism and not let it drag us down but use it as an opportunity expand, grow and know what our readers like and need.
ReplyDeleteGreat tips for gaining respect. Thanks for writing this out. It's really important.
ReplyDeleteThinking before you speak is an excellent one. I love it and encourage everybody to take it on.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you that it is important that we know to admit our mistakes. The longer we delay it, the longer we start working on the solution. And yes, people who are able to do this are admirable.
ReplyDeleteThinking before you speak is one I learned from the bad days. I learned not to talk or say anything when I am very happy as well as when I am very sad or angry. Because the word we might say is not actually what we mean. Sometimes we are too inclined by our emotions.
ReplyDeleteTo take respect one has to give respect, That's my moto for life. Inspiring article. Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteRespecting others feeling is very important. These are great tips thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteI have seen some people that don't admit their mistakes and it's not good. If they really want to grow and get better. That's the first move. Thank you for sharing these great tips!
ReplyDeleteThe key here is to stop focusing on you, and start thinking about others. It’s about how you conduct yourself, your attitudes towards others, and your actions.
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