Top 10 things that you should always keep a secret.
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There are always something in our life that we should never tell about to anyone else. There are a masses of people are being in the world who are likely to expose and share everything with others. It's not a good feature at all. If you're one of them, then you should know that sharing everything with others can damage your life in some cases. Sharing secrets with parents and so close people like this can be fair. But, it's not always the same with everyone. That's why, in today's post, I will be writing about top 10 things that you should always keep secret.
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1. Your weakness or fears:
Every person used to have at least one specific fears or weakness. That we commonly used to name as phobia. Nor you and me is anomaly from that. Some people in the world used to be afraid of bloods and others used to get screwed about insects. There are numerous weird phobias like this are being in the world and around 19.2 million people in the world are having at least one phobia syndrome. If you're having any weakness or fear, then never reveal anything about that to anyone in the world. Because, if your enemies will be known about that somehow, then they can scare you with that and even can rule you by using your fears. When it comes to friends, then it's better that you're even keeping your fears and weakness secret from them. Because, if any of your fear or weakness will be feeling weird and ridiculous to them then they can tease you and even can make fun with you for that. At this moment, you can be feeling so flummoxed. So, only for avoiding this king of oblivious circumstances, never reveal anything about that.
2. Your physical health problem:
You can be outraged with me after having a look of the point at the first attempt. Since, having any health problem is apparently such a painful thing, and people are likely to talk about their pains with others at this moment. Well, I am not going to forbid you from sharing your health problems with your parents or family members or with an expert doctor, but not necessarily you should share your problems with all of your friends and all the people you're being introduced with somehow. Because, your fake friends or your enemies can be out there who want to tease you always, and when they will know about your solemn health problems, then it will be a perfect opportunity for them. For instance, maybe you're having a leg pain and now they can spread rumors like you will never be capable to walk anymore or something like this. Even, a person with a health problem generally used to be so feeble. That's why, they can try to harm you in the moment when you will be alone.
3. Your mental health problem:
It's something that's probably being connected with the first one. Mental health problem is also one kind of health problem but sometimes it can be so solemn. As a quintessential, maybe you're being depressed with something and you need help immediately. Then it's better that you're sharing your pain with only some of your close friends and family members whom you testily trust and it will be best if you will consult with any psychologist or mental health specialist. But, without them if you're going to share your mental health problems with others and less known people, then chances are, some of them are going to call you a crazy and going to harm your mental condition as well as some of them can also give you some nefarious recommendations that can bring you down.
4. Your money crisis:
There can be nothing grater danger in the world more than a money crisis. Without a plenty of money, life used to be uncertain and damaged for some cases. Money is one of the most sensitive thing in the world that can even kill a person. But, the truth is danger never comes by giving any response. That's why, it's going to be better if you're only sharing your money crisis with people whom you're having faith in that they can help you or at least can bolster you to get out of the danger. If you will share your money crisis problems with a wrong person, then chances are you're going to be insulted badly. Because, the most abominable truth about the society is, "nowadays for the most part respect is being given by watching the amount of money." So, never share your money crisis with everyone if you have lost your job or you're having money crisis for any other reason.
5. The news of the death of a family member:
It's an another controversial point that can make the blood of a person boil. But, don't take me wrong, it's the truth. When a person used to be died, then people and relatives out there will know it, and it's so simple. But, sometimes the death of an important person in a family can break the family and enemies out there can take the advantage of the misery. They can hurt you with their bad words and can even try to harm you somehow. So, you must walk on eggshells about that.
6. Your past mistakes:
Mistakes are everywhere. To err is human. But, sometimes we used to make some mistakes in our life that used to be so greater and even it becomes daunting for us to move forward by forgetting our past mistakes by forgiving us. However, if you will share these sensitive mistakes with others, they might not understand you always and they can tease you for your past mistakes. That moment, it will make you feel bad about yourself again and you will start hating yourself. That can make your self esteem low and even can persuade to have suicidal thoughts. So, never make the greater mistake by sharing your past mistakes or mistakes with others.
7. Don't share anything about parent's relationship:
If you're a teenager or a child and having a pair of fighting parents, then probably you're going to make the mistake. Actually, now approximately in every house and family in the world, the parents used to fight with each other and sometimes they never think about the mental pain of their child. Having a pair of fighting parents can be so annoying and as a result, you can share something bad about your parents unintentionally with someone else while having a conversation. However, you should be always known that maybe that's annoying, after all it's a family matter and as a family member you should always care about the family privacy. Sharing bad things about the relationships of your parents won't bring you the solution but it can make you fallen in danger sometimes. First of all, the outside people will have a lousy idea about your family and your parents that you probably don't want them to have. Secondly, if the words will reach to your parents somehow then you can be facing up a greater danger. So, always be careful about that.
8. Don't share anything about your relationship falls:
Relationship falls out there have become a commonplace nowadays. It can be heart breaking in some cases. When you're having a relationship falls maybe you have broken up with someone or you have gotten divorce, then you can ask someone for suggestions who is being so attached to your heart. But, sharing it with everyone frankly will be one of the most wrong decision. Because, a tones of nasty people in the society are being there who used to be eagerly waiting for getting this kind of news and when they finally get anything like that, then start analyzing and making stories in their own way. If they will know about your relationship falls, then maybe they will make story and spread rumors or continuously will irritate you by asking weird questions about this matter. So, always be careful at this point.
9. Don't talk bad things about your children:
If you're a parent and you feel so annoyed with your little children, then it's probably for you. Little children are always a pet peeve and they're likely to be cheeky and procrastinating for the most time as a child feature. It's your responsibility to rectify them politely. But, if you will share the bad things of your child with others, then your child can be affected by that. First of all, they will start having a bad idea about your childreden and secondly if your child will be informed or known about that somehow, then she will not only be feeling down in dumps, but also she can start hating you as a parent. So, you must not share the bad features of your child with any third person out there.
10. Don't share your religious view:
Religion has been always considered as a controversial thing in the world. Every person in the world is having their own religion and we should respect the people from other religion as well as our religion. In the society, while growing up you will meet different people from different culture, country, community and religion. Some of them can be so obsessive about their religion. So, never discuss anything about your religion when you're being with the people from other religion. Because, it can create quarrel and the relevance can be broken. It will be best, if you're not talking anything about your religion when you're even being with the people from your religion. Since, every religion used to have two kind of people. The one is believer of the religion and the other is atheist of the religion. Sometimes, it becomes impossible to know which kind of person the other person is. So, never discuss anything about your religious view.
I so wish that I did not have to share my health problems. Having life threatning food allergies means letting people know why I have to bring my own food.
ReplyDeleteThere's a lot to process here. I am all in favor of us not talking badly about our kids.
ReplyDeleteI can see where you'd want to not talk about these with others. I do agree that many things need to just be kept to yourself. Of course you should never talk bad about your children at all.
ReplyDeleteThis is such a really great post, I will surely take note of this. There is a lot of things that we don't need to share to others.
ReplyDeleteI agree with some points in here. I will always talk about my religious views tho, will never push it to anyone but I will be comfortable in sharing it.
ReplyDeleteYes, some of people around us can take advantage of one of your weakness. I am agree that these things should remain private in your family
ReplyDeleteThis is really useful post. Yes people take advantage , so we need to take care of ourselves.
ReplyDeleteThis list is amazing! I especially agree with #1!
ReplyDeleteI think this is a good list of things that you should not share with all. They will leave you vulnerable and may be used to hurt you.
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed this post, you provided a lot of useful information.
ReplyDeleteInteresting article.
ReplyDeleteYou've definitely given some food for thought. I was raised in a terrible home, and I'm glad that I didn't keep some of those family secrets because it allowed my life to change. However, I can see why you have created this list because there are certainly a lot of people who will take advantage of you sharing the above list and use it against you!
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