TOP 7 SIGNS THAT WILL SAY THAT SOMEONE IS KEEPING A SECRET FROM YOU
HI MY FRIENDS, WELCOME AGAIN,
HAVE YOU EVER FELT SUSPICIOUS ABOUT YOUR FRIEND OR FAMILY MEMBERS? MAYBE, YOU'RE FEELING THAT THEY'RE KEEPING A SECRET FROM YOU BUT YOU'RE NOT BEING SURE ABOUT THAT. IF YOU FEEL THAT UNDERSTANDING SOMEONE IS KEEPING A SECRET OR NOT IS ARDUOUS, THEN I AGREE WITH YOU. ALTHOUGH, IT'S A TOUGH PSYCHOLOGICAL MATTER TO UNDERSTAND, BUT YOU CAN DO IT ONLY AFTER KNOWING FEW SIMPLE THINGS. THAT'S WHY, IN TODAY'S POST I AM GOING TO BE TAKING ABOUT TOP 7 SIGNS THAT WILL TELL YOU THAT SOMEONE IS KEEPING A SECRET FROM YOU.
SO IF YOU'RE BEING INTERESTED, THEN CONTINUE READING TO THE LAST.
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Top 6 types of toxic people that you should be always aware of [part-2]TOP 7 SIGNS THAT WILL SAY THAT SOMEONE IS KEEPING A SECRET FROM YOU
1. BEING ANXIOUS WHEN YOU'RE TALKING TO THEIR FRIENDS:
Generally, when a person used to keep something secret from you, then she used to be frightened and worried when you talk to her friends. Because, maybe there is something that she hasn't shared with you but has shared with the friend. That's why, she used to be feeling that maybe you will be knowing the secret from the friend or the friend will expose the secret in front of you. That's why, she used to be anxious when you talk to her friends.
2. NOT SPENDING TIME WITH YOU:
When a person is keeping any secret, then she is not likely to spend time with you quite a few often. Because, she used to be feeling that if she will spend time with you, then maybe you will ask her about the question and she won't be capable to keep it secret from you anymore. In this case, most frequently the person can be showing her busyness or can make different excuses for avoiding having a conversation with you.
3. TRYING TO TABLE THE MATTER:
Generally, when a person used to keep secret about something, that moment they despise to talk about the matter anymore. As a result, they try their level best for sitting on the fence. Only for not being asked about the matter anymore, they can do different weird things. Such as:
- They used to be assuming despite of being asked simple questions: for instance, maybe you're asking one of your friend about their result something like, "have you achieved a good result in your examination?" in this case, if they have gotten a bad result, then they will try to hide that. Eventually, instead of answering the question in a simple way they can be saying like,"how can you think like that?" or "what do you think about me?"
- They will be acting like you're a crazy: as an example, maybe you've asked them any simple question but only for making you feeling that you're a crazy, they can use some phrases like, "how could you even think that?", "are you a crazy?", "are you a crazy person?" or "have you lost your mind?"
4. THEY AVOID USING THE WORD 'I' :
Speaking really hypothetically when asked a personal question is a sign they're trying to deflect.
5. SPEAKING FASTER MORE THAN THE USUAL:
People interpret fast taking as a sign of nervousness and a lack of self confidence. For the most part, When a person used to keep a secret, then the person used to have a cold feet since the person used to be afraid by thinking that what if they will be asked about the matter they're keeping a secret. Consequently, they used to speak faster.
6.BEING SO SENSITIVE ABOUT THEIR MOBILE PHONE OR LAPTOP:
Even though, everyone has the right of keeping their things private, but if they're being so afraid and not letting you to touch their mobile phone or laptop for a second, or if they used to be arrogant with you when you want to use their mobile phone for making a phone call or for doing an essential work, then probably the person is keeping a massive secret from you.
7. USING A LOT OF CONDITIONALS:
They used to use a lot of conditionals. For instance, if someone is using phrases like, "I would never do that" instead of saying "I haven't done that" Then maybe she is keeping a secret.
OVERVIEW OF THE POINTS IN SHORT:
- BEING ANXIOUS WHEN YOU'RE TALKING TO THEIR FRIENDS.
- NOT SPENDING TIME WITH YOU.
- TRYING TO TABLE THE MATTER.
- AVOIDING USING THE WORD "I"
- SPEAKING FASTER THAN THE USUAL.
- BEING SO SENSITIVE ABOUT THEIR MOBILE PHONE OR LAPTOP.
- USING A LOT OF CONDITIONALS.
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ReplyDeleteUnfortunately, some people can be deceptive. It's important to know what the signs of that are. Thanks for these tips!
ReplyDeleteThese psychological signs about keeping a secret are interesting. I had fund reading your article.
ReplyDeleteThis was a fascinating read. next time, I can tell if someone is keeping a secret from me
ReplyDeleteAll of these signs are so true! Definitely good to pay attention to these things.
ReplyDeleteSome folks are very good at lying and being able to see their "tells" is difficult. Then there are others, the majority of whom absolutely have tells.
ReplyDeleteHhhmmmm....I didn't know about the use of conditionals can also explain this! Thanks for elaborating.
ReplyDeleteGreat way of diagnosing these issues. I'm happy you shared this article.
ReplyDeleteThis is an interesting read. I haven't really thought about it but I guess it's good to know that someone is keeping a secret. Thank you for sharing.
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