Top 10 things not to say to a depressed person
HI MY FRIENDS, WELCOME AGAIN.
I KNOW, ALL THE LAST BLOG POSTS THAT I HAVE WRITTEN ABOUT DEPRESSION, EVERY OF THEM WAS ONE SIDED. I MEAN, I HAVE WRITTEN ONLY POSTS ABOUT "HOW TO SPOT AND GET RID OF DEPRESSION AND WHAT ARE THE THINGS NOT TO DO WHEN WE ARE DEPRESSED" THEY WERE REALLY REFRESHING AND DOABLE TO GET HEAD AROUND. SO I WILL RECOMMEND TO HAVE A LOOK OF THEM IF YOU HAVEN'T SEEN THEM YET.
TODAY I AM GOING TO BE WRITING ABOUT SOMETHING SPECIAL. I HAVE SEEN A BUNCH OF PEOPLE USED TO GROW APART WITH THEIR PARTNER OR FRIENDS ONLY FOR THE LACK OF KNOWLEDGE ABOUT HOW TO BOOST THEIR PARTNER MENTALLY WHEN THEY ARE DEJECTED WITH SOMETHING. MOST FREQUENTLY THEY USED TO BE FAILED TO USE THE PERFECT WORDS TO BOLSTER AND ENCOURAGE THEIR FRIEND. AS A RESULT, APPARENTLY THEY CONSUME SOME WRONG WORDS THAT MIGHT BE FEELING NEFARIOUS TO THE GUTTED PERSON.
CONSEQUENTLY, THEIR RELEVANCE USED TO BE LIKE THIS:
FEELING UPSETTING💔 RIGHT?? I KNOW IT IS SO COMMON IN SOME CASES. THAT'S WHY TODAY I AM HERE WITH THIS. NOW TABLE ALL THIS AND COME TO THE POINT.
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TOP 1O THINGS NOT TO SAY TO A DEPRESSED PERSON
1. "YOU'RE SO SELFISH"
Have you ever faced up any estate where you've told the same thing to a friend of you and now you can notice, somewhat the person is ignoring you and you're not being capable to figure out the reason. Picture this, your friend has broken up with someone and she is having apparently a blue now, and this moment without emphasizing her being a little uptight and miffed you're telling her, "you're so selfish and you only think of yourself". If you've told something like that, then drifting apart with you is truly so logical for her. If you presume, she is assuming a little more that she shouldn't be, then you can tell her that by being suave. However, when you say the person that she or he is selfish, that means you're directly being fastidious with her.
2. "YOU'RE SO WEAK"
Again an expression full of arrogance. When a person is nonchalant that means she is already being mentally weak and at present, she is trying her heart and soul to be strong. She wants inspiration, motivation and courage. However, at this moment if you will be evidently talking that the person is weak, that moment it will undermine her mental condition without improving that. The depressed person will be thinking that you're mocking her and she will leave you.
3."YOU'RE NOT LOOKING DEPRESSED"
Never say this kind of things to a melancholy person. No one demonstrates their misery in front of others when they are truly dejected. Because, they don't desire to grim other's sympathy. On the top of that, they always desire to have a person who will see the sad face that is being hidden before the happy face. So, at this point if you will say that they are not looking depressed, then they will feel that you don't get them and they will stop sharing their feelings with you.
4. "WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO BE DEPRESSED?"
Never pose a question about the depression of a person. Maybe you are being curious to know about the thing that is making her upset, but when you start being aggressive with them or you push their button to know the reason, that moment they try to ignore you. Since, I have told in my previous posts that it's not a piece of cake for everyone to elucidate the reason behind their misery. So, don't ask them this kind of questions anymore.
5. "I FEEL YOU"
Now you can be flabbergasted by thinking,"what's wrong with the line." Having this kind of feeling is a dime a dozen since we most frequently consume the line to stick up for others and even back in the time, I was also using the same line for bolstering my friends. However, I was feeling troubled when I saw, it wasn't having a great impact on them. Only after that, when I did some researches about that in google, I came to realize the problem with using the word. Ask yourself,"can I truly feel the person?" Have you figured out the answer?? It's a human brain. We can never feel that untill we are being in the same circumstances. The other person can also understand that you're lying. So don't use the line most often.
6."YOU HAVEN'T TRY HARDER"
Maybe a friend of you has been failed in something and you're going to use the line. Stop for one minute and ask yourself,"what would be my situation if a friend of me would have told me the same?" You would be feeling down in dumps for sure and wouldn't be talking with her anymore. So, now just think that which attitude you're going to get after using the same line. No one wants to be failed. Everyone wants to be established and as a result they work harder but sometimes the luck also matters. So don't tell them anything like this.
7."COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS"
Learning gratitude is testily a pivotal thing. However, it's not your responsibility to teach her that. It is so common for anyone who used to be in a soup. They used to think that it's their biggest problem and it will spoil their life. so it's crucial for them to survive it, and at this moment, if you will be telling them to count their blessing, then they will feel that you don't get them. You can only advise and then they will ignore you,
8. "EVERYONE HAS PROBLEM" OR "IT COULD BE WORSE"
It is something we can name as comparing feelings. Never compare the feeling of a depressed person with others. Always keep it in mind, everyone is having their own feeling and own problems.
9. "IT'S SUCH A SILLY MATTER"
That is called oversimplifying other's feeling. As a friend you can tell them this things by having the testament of making them realize that they can get over it. However, only a struggling person knows how much arduous it is for her to survive. So, when you're using this expressions they may think that you don't care about their feeling and they can ignore you.
10. "I AM BEING SUSPICIOUS"
Maybe you're not directly saying that. However, you're indirectly expressing your disbelief. They will leave you for sure . Trust is the greatest thing in every relation. Never lose faith in your friend when she is being depressed.
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