Top 10 Warning Signs of Low Self-Esteem and a Lack of Confidence
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I KNOW THERE ARE A MASSES OF PEOPLE ARE BEING IN THE WORLD WHO ARE SUFFERING A LOT BY THEIR LOW SELF-ESTEEM. THERE ARE SOME PEOPLE WHO USED TO COMPARE "LOW SELF-ESTEEM" WITH DEPRESSION AND SOME OF THEM ARE NOT BEING KNOWN ABOUT THE CORRECT DEFINITION OF LOW SELF-ESTEEM AT ALL. MOREOVER, THERE ARE ALSO A TONES OF PEOPLE ARE BEING IN THE WORLD, WHO KNOW SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH THEM BUT ONLY FOR BEING INCAPABLE TO FIGURE THEM OUT, THEY'RE STILL SUFFERING. THAT'S WHY TODAY I AM HERE WITH THIS POST. IN TODAY'S POST, AT FIRST, I WILL BE WRITING ABOUT THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN DEPRESSION AND LOW-ESTEEM AS WELL AS WRITING ABOUT THE MAIN DEFINITION OF LOW SELF-ESTEEM. THEN, I WILL BE TALKING ABOUT 10 WARNING SIGNS OF LOW SELF-ESTEEM. SO, IF YOU'RE BEING INTERESTED, THEN KEEP READING TO THE LAST.
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DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOW SELF-ESTEEM AND DEPRESSION:
Low self-esteem can be a life-long struggle. However, depression is typically associated with impairment in social, occupational, relational, or other critical areas of life.
WHAT IS LOW SELF-ESTEEM??
Low self-esteem is when someone feels lack of confidence about who they are and what they can do. People with low self-esteem are hypervigilant and hyperalert to signs of rejection, inadequecy and rebuff.
TOP 1O WARNING SINGS OF LOW SELF ESTEEM AND LACK OF CONFIDENCE
1. NOT ACCEPTING REAL COMPLIMENTS:
Getting appreciation is always a matter of happiness. But, it's not always the same for everyone. People with low confidence never feel spontaneous after accepting compliments. Because, they always used to think that people are acting and all of the compliments she is accepting is not real at all. They always used to think that they're not worthy of compliments. That's why, it used to be arduous for them to accept real compliments.
2. BEING CRITICAL ABOUT THEMSELVES:
Most frequently, the people with lack of confidence used to be the biggest critics of their own. They're likely to talk about their bad things in front of others more than their goods. Since, they always used to assume that they're having nothing good in them. They always used to consider themselves as a loser who can never have any good feature at all.
3. IGNORING THEIR ACHIEVEMENTS:
People with lack of confidence used to suffer with minor complexity and a bunch of dissatisfactions. They never feel good about their achievement and likely to talk about their failure for the most part. They always used to feel that they're one of the most failed person in the world. As a result, it used to be challenging for a person with lack of confidence to wake up and and have a try again after going to the drain.
4. SLOUCHING:
People with low self-esteem used to display a low body stance: they don't stand tall, but instead they used to let their body slouch downwards, sending the massage that they're not proud of themselves.
5. SAYING SORRY MOST OFTEN:
People with low confidence and self-esteem are likely to say sorry first most frequently. I'm not saying that saying sorry is wrong. However, people with low confidence say sorry frequently without analyzing that they're having any fault or not. They used to be feeling guilty to themselves. That's why, whenever anything wrong used to take place in their presence, they presume that they're the main guilty and they're the only responsible for all of the nefarious occurrences. However, apparently, it's not always the truth at all.
6. FOLLOWING OTHERS:
People with lack of confidence are likely to follow others at any kind of circumstances. They're not strategic and never having a strong personality of their own. They always used to consider others greater more than them. They never find out anything unique in them. That's why, they used to follow others.
7. FEELING DIFFICULTY TO GIVE ANY DECISION ANYWHERE:
There is nothing new to say that when you're going to take a decision anywhere, you will have to be confident about it. You will have to be sure that you're not giving any wrong decision. Since, sometimes your decision can be considered as one of the most pivotal part of something. Maybe, you're having your own company or your own business where as a business honor you will have to take always the accurate decision. Otherwise, only for a wrong decision of you, everything can be destructed forever. In situations like this, you will have to be solemn and confident about your decision. However, for a person with low self- esteem, having a decision like this can be considered as one of the most daunting thing. Since, they're not having faith in themselves at all.
8. GIVING UP TOO EARLY:
Throwing the towel so early is an another most common feature of a less confident person. Since they're not having any trust in them, they give up so early by thinking that their plan and strategy is not going to be working at all. On the top of that, they are not likely to have the courage to stick around one point and they used to burn out so effortlessly without trying hard. Generally, they're one kind of narrow minded people who used to be dependent on their fate more than their hard work. As a result, without trying they keep waiting for the right time and casually give up so early by saying that it's not their cup of tea.
9. GIVING PRIORITY TO OTHERS MORE THAN THE OWN:
People with low self-esteem and lack of confidence are likely to give the priority to others for the most part. They testily don't care about themselves at all. Because, they feel that their own feeling is nothing but useless. For the most part, they used to spend the majority of their time to please others since they don't want to lose them. They never try to talk about their own feelings. This often involves neglecting their own needs, saying yes to things they may not want to do, and feeling guilty about saying no.
10. LACK OF BOUNDARIES:
The ability to create boundaries is often established early in life. Children who have caregivers that show them that they're admired and valued are more likely to be able to create good boundaries in adult relationships. They are also more likely to have a more positive view of themselves in general. People who don't value themselves can face up big deals in setting boundaries with other people. They may feel guilty or fear that people will stop liking them if they try to establish or maintain a boundary. This can create problems when people don't adore a person's space and time. The lack of respect not only adds to stress but may make a person feel less valued.
OVERALL IN BRIEF, HAVING A LACK OF CONFIDENCE AND SELF-ESTEEM IS SOMETHING WHEN YOU HAVE PUT UP WITH YOUR ANTICS AND YOU ARE ONLY LIVING YOUR LIFE FOR OTHERS. IF YOU HAVE EVER FELT ANY OF THE UPPER SIGNS OF HAVING LACK OF CONFIDENCE OR SELF-ESTEEM, THEN RAISE A RED FLAG TODAY
Lack of self confidence is a huge issue! We work with teenagers and we often tell them that a relationship with Christ is where they find their confidence. When they know who they are, how their valued, and how loved they are, they begin to walk a little taller and live more confidently!
ReplyDeleteI've struggled with self-esteem for a long time. It wasn't until someone saw my struggle and told me what they thought about me that brought me out of that slump.
ReplyDeleteI appreciate your straight-forward description of what low self-esteem is. I've been wondering about how to help a friend of mine lately, and after reading this I think it is a matter of depression rather than low self-esteem.
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